i dont think the conditions of our society and the sexual domain are such that women can freely excercize their agency. what can we do about that?
Sam bee 1/18/18:
Sam: It doesn’t have to be rape to ruin your life, and it doesn’t have to ruin your life to be worth speaking out about
We know the difference between a rapist, a workplace harasser, and an aziz Ansari. That doesn’t mean ANY of them are okay or we have ot accept any of them.
Welcome to 2018, we get to have a higher standard for sex than just “not rape” and women get to talk about it if men don’t live up to those standards.
If you don’t want to tune into your partners feelings throughout sex, you shouldn’t be fucking a person at all. May I suggest a ziplock bag full of grape jelly.